Category Archives: Friends And Family

My SL gets Weirder – Part 3

In parts 1 and 2 I introduced my core family, Allan and Sal.  They’re the ones I live with am around most days.  There are two more girls I just have to mention, though.  The ones I consider my best friends and really my extended family in SL.  Caitlyn and Sheree.

Caitlyn I’ve know since almost day 1 in SL.  She was pretty much my first true friend there and has helped me a lot and shown me the ropes.  She’s been hanging around SL for almost four years now, and knows it all.  She’s also a shorty like me.  As is Sal, I forgot to mention.  We take pride in our *normal* height, as opposed to the prevalent seven and eight foot Amazon women of SL  ;-). 

Caitlyn is a talented builder and used to run her own shop here in SL.  She likes to use me as a guinea pig for her new creations which I don’t mind, as I have fun doing it.  One I like particularly is the necklace/collar she gave me.  I’ve fallen in love with it, it’s just so beautiful!  She has put some of her items up on XStreet, including this one.  You can get your own at a *very* reasonable price from Caitlyn’s items on XStreet.  A word of warning, though – the picture does not come *close* to doing this necklace justice.  In person it’s gorgeous!  If you can’t decide and want to see it in person, IM me in-world. I’d be happy to show it to you.  I wear mine every day.

Sheree is even younger in SL than me.  I’ve known her since early on, too.  She was only days old when we met.  Since then she has become one of my fastest friends.  Sheree is Australian so is 15 hours ahead of me.  Makes my head spin.  I keep asking her what the future holds, but she just shakes her head and mumbles something about paradox.

Sheree is a slave herself.  She was a slave before I was a Mistress, so she helps me fine tune my Mistress skills with a bit of good advice here and there.  She gives me the other point of view.  She is not *my* slave though, and I am not *her* Mistress.  She has a Mistress she is very happy with.  We are simply friends and peers.

Well, that’s the important events and people.  I have several more ideas for articles so be sure to come back often!


My SL Gets Weirder – Part 2

Where was I?  Oh yes,  I’d mentioned my new look and my wonderful slave Allan.  What I perhaps failed to mention is how much she means to me.  That was brought home to me the other day, when through a misunderstanding and equipment failure I thought I’d lost her for good.  It broke my heart.  Fortunately all is well now, and we’re stronger than ever!

Thirdly, at least chronologically, is Sally.  Or the hottest, sweetest, most wonderful girl in SL, as I like to call her…  We met in Carnal City, and after a whirlwind romance I asked her to marry me.  Two months ago today, as a matter of fact. 

Wed 4/14/2010 5:05 AM
Dear Cassandra Kestrel,

You have received a Second Life partner proposal from Sally —–.

I actually proposed, but she crashed right afterward.  When she came back online, she had been busy and formalized it.  🙂

I *do* have a picture of her that’s worth posting:

My Sweet Sal

Is she cute or what?  *sigh*.  Yep, I’m smitten.  She’s wonderful.  Young, but wonderful.  Unfortunately, she’s a busy lady RL, so I don’t get to see her as much as I would like.  She’s so sweet to make as much time for me as she does, though.  I appreciate *any* time I get with this special girl! 

A bit about Sal, without giving away anything she doesn’t want made public.  She’s Dutch, first thing which makes her seven hours ahead of my time.  That can make it a bit tough on us, since she’s in bed by 4pm my time.  She’s young but legal as she says in her profile.  Why she hangs around with an older lady like myself I’ll never know.  Look at her – you *know* she could do better.  ;-)  Especially since her personality is even sweeter than her looks.  She’s mine and I’m keeping her, though!

And I am *soooo* hers…

I’ve been with her for two thirds of my life in SL now.  Wow.  It seems to have gone so fast, yet I feel like I’ve known her forever if you know what I mean.  She’s one of the best, most important, and special things ever to happen to me in SL or RL.  She’s amazing.

Even more to say in Part 3..

My SL Gets Weirder – Part 1

Ok, so it’s been a while since I updated the site.  :-)  My SL has gotten a bit busy lately, and with all to do and see I just can’t seem to pull myself away!  Things have changed so much since the early days it’s hard to know where to start!

Firstly my look has changed.  Quite a bit.  I cringe when I look at the old photos of myself.  You have no frame of reference when you’re new, so it’s hard to tell that you look like a noob.  Trust me though, if you’re serious about SL, you need to put at least a little money into your Avatar.  More on that in a future article.  Let’s just start off with a shot of the new me, shall we?  So you recognize me if you visit…and of course to show off a bit…

The new Cass

Secondly, I went out shopping for a tattoo on April 8th.  I didn’t find one.  I got a slave, though.  Shocked?  I was, let me tell you.  The slave trade is alive and well in SL with many traits influenced by John Norman’s Gor series.  There are many people that find total submission as a slave the height of thrilling, and SL allows them to do it.  In fact, there is a glut of slaves and submissives on the SL market.  Masters and Mistresses are far outnumbered.

But back to my experience.  I had teleported into a region to look for a tattoo.  I started camming around as is my wont (too lazy to actually walk around), so was “out of body” for a bit.  Now fortunately or unfortunately I was wearing this cute little latex number I got from Graves ( if you’re interested).  There’s just a wee chance that it made me look a bit like a domme…but anyway when I returned to my body I found two naked women prostrate at my feet.

They were looking for a Mistress, they said.  Hmmm..I suddenly felt like a Mistress.  Imagine that.  Figuring I’d better come clean, I admitted my position.  No I was not a Mistress, never had been a Mistress.  But I was willing to try…  This turned out to be agreeable to all involved, so we talked a bit.  One of the girls unfortunately had incompatible kinks with my own, so we parted ways.  The other one, Allan, …I kept.

We went back to a small apartment I maintained at the time in Carnal City and continued talking.  We agreed to give being Mistress/slave a try and she submitted to me that night.  Two months later we have had our ups and downs, but are still together.  She’s teaching me how to be a Mistress.  And I have to say I’m enjoying it..

She is perhaps a bit of a nosy slave however..  ;-)  She came across this blog in the wee hours of this morning looking for info on her Mistress.  In fact she’s the one that suggested I bring it up to date.  Sorry, no picture of Allan…none that I care to post at this time anyway…I don’t like any of the ones I’ve taken well enough.  She deserves the best shot I can do – I owe her that for the way she takes such good care of me.  Once I get that shot, I’ll update this post.

Much more to say, but I’ll save that for Part 2